I HAVE GIVEN INNUMERABLE LECTURES while traveling around the world during the past twenty-five years. I had many opportunities to have conversation with people of diverse social, cultural, and religious backgrounds about the way of life. During this process, I came upon an important discovery. The attitude and experience of sexuality have vastly influenced the quality of life in both positive and negative ways.
Most people think they have a mature perspective and comfortable relationship with sex. The reality is different. I have found that too many people have twisted or dual perspectives on sex. This reality often prevents people from leading more fulfilling and authentic lives. The times I feel most saddened is when I meet people who have had sexual traumas and suffer from it for the rest of their lives.
For this reason, Ilchi Lee have emphasized that sex education must take place at home before our children reach puberty and before they are too much exposed to immature social notions of sex. I include sex education in the family as an important part of Human Technology. Before talking about sex education, allow me to share some general HT perspective on sex in this chapter.